February 20th, 2025
Overview: new laptop, random thoughts, commissions, Anilist, shrine update
It was probably unwise of me to say I would have an update for today knowing I had work, but I wanted to get this done sooner rather than later. I added an overview so that if anyone is interested in any of those topics, they could just skip to it.
My new laptop arrived yesterday and I haven't had a chance to properly use it until now. I still feel kind of bad for breaking my previous laptop, but I've been trying to justify it since I already had it for years, and I bought this one with my own money, and blah blah blah. Don't get me wrong, I already feel like I'll like this new laptop, I just have to get used to some changes. I was kind of worried since I was buying from a company I never heard of before (Nimo), but their laptops seem to be decent quality + they supposedly have great customer service.
I've had a lot on my mind this past month. I'm not really sure how to explain it or how much I should say. I have this thing where I feel like I have to atone for my purchases, so then I feel guilty if I'm not doing anything to make up for my spendings, even though I'm using my own money. I have a job, but I wouldn't say I have much of a disposable income, or I at least try not to spend much on myself. I enjoy the job that I have, but since it's based on location, and since I live in such a rural area, I can't get a lot of hours, meaning I don't make a lot of money. I originally imagined that I would use this as an opportunity to make money in other ways, but I haven't started anything in the past year. I want to believe that right now is the perfect time where I can (and really should) try some side gigs. I was into cross-stitching for a bit and later fell out of it, but if I'm able to set up my cross-stitches in my mom's booths, then I think I could get back into it (as well as other crafts). I've always daydreamed of doing art commissions but never made any effort to get into drawing seriously and setting things up, so I've been doing some research. I signed back into my Cashapp account, and I really don't want to use Paypal, but that seems to be the most popular option with everyone. Boohoo. I at least found some sort of work-around for allowing people to pay me with Paypal without my personal information being displayed, but I haven't tested it out yet. I don't want to get ahead of myself with all of this payment option planning since I still don't think my art is commission-worthy. I'm not really sure how long it will take me to improve since I have little-to-no experience with digital art (aside from drawing on my phone with my fingers) + I don't remember the last time I made a drawing that wasn't just a sketch, but I'm trying to have some faith in myself.
February hasn't been going how I thought it would, but I don't mind too much. I've noticed that a lot of my feelings and beliefs have been changing these past few months, and I wonder if this is some sort of important moment in my life— or maybe I only feel that way because my birthday is coming up next week. I've distanced myself from some people and don't get too personal in conversations anymore, and I'm kind of happier with things like this. I felt kind of guilty at first for how drastically my preferences in socialization changed, but when I thought more about it, I realized that this is probably just the type of person I've always been. Without going too in depth, I didn't have a personal friendship until I was in middle school— not because I was all alone, but because I just always talked to other kids my age without ever getting close to them. When I did eventually become close friends with some girls in my school, it wouldn't take long before I distanced myself because something was "off", even if I didn't really know why I felt that way (especially if whoever I was friends with didn't do anything horribly wrong). I thought maybe this was just something I would grow out of as a kid, but considering I still do this, I'm reconsidering how I approach friendships now. I might know why I'm like this, but I feel like if I tried explaining my beliefs, it wouldn't make a lot of sense and could even be misinterpreted. I guess it is just a preference.
While I was off of Neocities for a few weeks, I spent a lot of time on Anilist. I'm already on it a lot since I try to read manga every day and use the site to track my activity, but I got back into participating in forum games and have interacted with a lot of interesting users. I also updated my profile bio for the first time in a while to make it more appealing to myself (and others, I guess). The global feed is the closest I will be to experiencing "social media", and a majority of the posts are just sooo uninteresting. A lot of unfunny people just use it like it's Twitter or whatever (sometimes I block the especially annoying users LOL), and I struggled to find people that I could actually interact with. I should have tried out forum games sooner since it's really fun having Thought-Provoking Conversations with Like-Minded People. About 10-15 people followed me within a few days, and I'm really happy that most of them were other girls with similar interests as me. I've even been checking out more manga and anime because of these interactions. Yay. Before Anilist, I tried getting my social "interactions" and entertainment by scrolling through other forums for hobbies that I'm into, but I've read through enough to the point that it feels like a waste of time (mostly because the same uninteresting topics get brought up over and over).
I still chat with my friends on Discord, mostly about anime and manga— also known as: mostly about the anime and manga I've been into— also known as: mostly about my favorite character. I'm so relieved to have access to my Shirogane shrine again, which I initially planned to finish and upload for Valentine's Day. I obviously wasn't able to do that, so I'm waiting to upload the shrine on my birthday instead. I'm not worried about my love for him being "just a phase" anymore considering he's still on my mind. I was working on my site a lot until I was forced to stop, so I hope I can get back into it, but not too much? I was working on it almost daily, and maybe that's cool, but it made me feel a little bad since I thought I could have been doing more productive things.
Thank you to anyone who followed along with my updates on Neocities (even though I wasn't gone from my site for that long) and to anyone that read some/all of this entry. Take care.
Listening to:Monochrome Factor ED 2 - Dark & Light (Shirogane solo ver.)
Can you believe that I've listened to this song 110 times within the past 18 days.